Today’s topic is very important for everyone, we are going to take a big decision about the wedding in their life. How will you know if your partner is good for you if you exactly don’t know about yourself?
It doesn’t matter that you are together for many years or you are just starting to see each other and you are not sure if you should stay the course.
No matter what is the situation, take a check-in is never a bad thing. Go through these 19 tough questions that you should definitely ask yourself before preceding the wedding.
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1. Is for better or worse making me better or worse?
Ask this question to yourself that your partner cheer up to be your best self, or does he or she get frightened by any victory and feel safer when you’re not putting your best foot forward?
2. Do we really accept one another?
There are so many things that you want to change about the people in your life, but it is rare that anyone should be in a situation where they feel they aren’t permitted to be authentic and accepted as the different, unique person they are.
3. Who am I?
How can understand that your partner is perfect for you or not if you have no idea who are you?
4. Am I happy to be in this relationship?
If you search for someone with whom you can share your happiness, sadness then you got a really special one. But if you don’t meet someone as like then what. But let’s face it: this is true being unhappy at home can seep into other areas of your life and very fast. Normally you fight with each other and may not like your company with each other. Doesn’t mean you have to the surety of everything. But knot with someone special in the hope that it changes things is a bad, bad idea.
5. Am I feeling trapped?
Really you want to be in this relationship the most of the time or do you search yourself wishing for a way out? Do you stay because you’ve invested time or are you really invested in your mate?
6. What am I doing to hold us back?
This is another point you should focus on. You may be more focused, more pensive, quicker to let things go, or the first to raise proceed to counsel. Whatever that is, I would like to suggest you take this as a sign to step up.
7. Is this relationship balanced?
What do you feel? Do you ever feel that you are on the same page in terms of compromise, sacrifice, and other accessories? Or it may be opposite one of you doing most of the giving while the other just sits with their hands out?
8. Can we have fun together?
Do you both love your companies with each other? Let’s take an example, have you seen two people sit at the same brunch but in the opposite directions as though they are being forced to walk through their day together? Is this fun?
9. Why am I in this relationship?
Ask yourself why you are in this relationship. Just because you respect, love, trust, and value that person with whom you are? Or because you may have afraid of being alone, worried about finances..or you think of that person as your life and scared of losing them?
10. Where is this going?
Living together is great but in the end, the relationship will require a plan or someone will begin to feel concerned.
11. Do I really trust my partner?
Somehow, the sudden or immediate answers to this question may be devastating. If you really one of them it’s time to ask why and how you will start to rebuild trust. Because every relationship starts with trust. Without it there is nothing.
12. Am I with a good person?
If you really know your partner then it will be definitely easy for you to make the decision.
13. Am I attracted to my partner?
Physical attraction may not be as important in a relationship, but knockdown yourself to be in a relationship with someone to who you’re not attracted..just because it is comfortable or only limited to perfect on paper this is not fair in the real life. You will feel aggrieved and they may feel rejected.
14. Am I a parent or a partner?
Taking care of someone is fine, but when you feel like you’re lifting a boyfriend or maybe something...seriously this will go very complicated for your husband. You are trying to resent him or her in their childish way. This may not possible in any way.
15. Does my partner have my back?
Do you think that you’re a part of the faithful team who stands up for one another, supports one another, and somehow you are feeling like you’re the part being thrown under the bus by your soulmate?
16. Are we looking in the same direction?
Some of the couples don’t believe in big talks like religion, marriage, babies because they have the thinking that somehow, these things will just work themselves out. But one time the situation comes where they realize they are in a complicated and painful situation that leaves one or both feeling a little bit deceiving.
17. Are we growing together?
Everyone in the world has the right to grow and develop and live a life full of joy. Are you and your partner still give way to your passions and growing as individuals?
18. Am I still me?
Being in love with someone should not definitely need to change your identity just because you want to fit someone’s ideas.
19. What is my gut telling me?
You are getting any intuition then definitely listen to them, because you are getting this intuition for a reason.
I hope this goes helps you and now you know how important these questions for you!
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